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A patient refuses a treatment you believe is essential for their oral health. What do you do?

Whether you understand patient autonomy and can reason through a conflict without steamrolling anyone.

Written by Victoria Young, DDS · NYU College of Dentistry '24 · Penn Dental Medicine

The trap

Jumping straight to convincing them. The interviewer is watching for whether you ask a single question before you start persuading. Everything hinges on that.

How to structure your answer

Clarify before deciding → explore their reasoning → educate without pressure → respect autonomy → document and keep the door open.

A weak answer

What most people say
I'd explain why the treatment matters, show them the radiograph, and walk them through what happens if the decay keeps going, so they really understand the risk. A lot of the time people say no because nobody has taken the time to explain it in a way that lands. If they still refused after that, I'd respect it, but I'd want to be sure they had the full picture first.

Starts persuading immediately. Not one question gets asked before the explaining begins.

A stronger answer

What lands
First thing I'd do is ask why, before I say anything else about the tooth. I assisted for six years and the reason was almost never what I assumed. One man kept refusing a crown and it turned out his brother had died under anesthesia for something unrelated, and he'd stopped separating the two. So: ask, listen, then explain the specific consequence in plain words, and offer the smaller version if there is one. If he's a competent adult and still says no, that's his call. I document it and tell him the chair's here.

Asks why first, respects the refusal, documents it, and keeps the door open.

The first answer treats a refusal as a comprehension problem. The second one asks, and finds out it was a funeral.

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