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Describe a time you worked closely with someone very different from you.

Cultural humility and adaptability. Your future patient panel will look nothing like you.

Written by Victoria Young, DDS · NYU College of Dentistry '24 · Penn Dental Medicine

The trap

Answering in abstractions about valuing diversity. They asked for an incident. Also — describing the other person as exotic or as a growth opportunity for you rather than as a colleague.

How to structure your answer

The person and the difference → the specific friction or gap → how you bridged it → what you learned.

A weak answer

What most people say
I really value diversity, and working with people who see things differently is one of the best parts of any team. In the shop I was in, I worked alongside people from all over the country with completely different backgrounds and politics from mine. I learned that if you keep an open mind and stay respectful, you can almost always find common ground with someone.

Values, not an incident. Nothing in it happened on a particular day.

A stronger answer

What lands
In my shop the newest guy, Renard, was twenty and deaf in one ear from a childhood illness. I kept talking to him over my shoulder with my back turned, and he kept nodding at things he hadn't heard, including a torque spec. He finally told me, embarrassed, after I got short with him about it. So I started walking around to his good side before I said anything, which took about two seconds and I should have asked in week one. He was better at hydraulics than I was. I just made him work harder to hear it.

A real misunderstanding, a fix that cost two seconds, and no lesson-object treatment.

The second answer names the thing he got wrong for six months. Diversity statements don't have that in them.

These are illustrations, not scripts. An answer you memorize sounds memorized — the point is the shape and the specificity, in your own words and about your own life.

Reading it isn't the same as saying it.

Most people can explain a good answer and still fall apart saying one out loud. Admitted asks you all 100 questions in a faculty voice, records you, and scores your pace and filler words.

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